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10.10.2003, 8:17 p.m. it's not real if you don't think about it |
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I'm just kind of rambling now. Maybe I'm just trying to not talk about my grandma. It really bothers me to see old ladies with white hair at work. I want to go up to their families and tell them to cherish the time they have left. I want one of them to turn around and be my grandma. I was looking at a picture of her yesterday, the way she looked up until a few days before she went into the hospital, and that really bothered me too. Because that person is my grandma and she's the one I wanted to take to Disney when she got better. The person in the hospital bed wasn't the same person I grew up around. My grandma still lives with my uncle and likes to go to Perkins and Cracker Barrel, and has to eat at certain times and have sugar-free syrup because she's diabetic. I keep finding new things that we'll never need to do again, now that she's gone. It all happened so fast. She'll never see my children. I'm sorry. I don't mean to be depressing. And I thought I was done crying. Obviously I was wrong. I want to talk about it, but then I want to avoid it so I don't have to feel bad. Work is nice, because it keeps me busy and I don't think about it. I don't want to think about it, because I don't want it to be real. But I know I can only pretend for so long. My other grandmother (my father's mother) has emphasema and Alzheimer's. My father's father died last year, and my mother's father died when she was nine. Pretty soon I won't have any grandparents at all. How's that for reality? I'm only 23. I always hoped my grandma would hold out until I was done with school. I guess I figured I would be able to handle it better then, or maybe that I'd be more ready for it then. Well, now it's "then" and I'm still not ready for it. Of course, I don't know if anyone can ever be ready for the death of a loved one, no matter how long you've been expecting it to happen.
I can't believe - 11.22.2006
Today I feel Everyone else feels
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